Staying Safe on 3Cupid

Never disclose sensitive information.

Never share personal information with people you don't know, such as your phone number, social media accounts, and, most importantly, your home address or workplace. Any photos where your home street or car can be identified are also discouraged.

Be especially mindful of any "financial help" requests or anything of the sort, even if the other person claims it's an emergency. Disclosing such sensitive details is extremely dangerous and can make you fall victim to financial fraud or scam strategies. Never share financial information and report such requests to us immediately.

Suggest a video call.

The best way to get a first glimpse at who someone is and what their intentions are is to have a face-to-face conversation with them. If video calls are something you're comfortable with, we highly recommend doing one before meeting in person.

Don't let them make you feel bad for wanting to play safe.

A huge red flag is when the person you're getting to know reacts with disdain whenever you want to be on the safe side. If you don't want to share your phone number or approximate location right away, you don't have to. If the other person doesn't respect that, their intentions may not be as pure as you think.

Keep the conversation inside the app for as long as it's convenient.

If something bad takes place in another app, it'll be much harder for us to act on it. Luring you off the app could also be the other person's way of avoiding consequences. 3Cupid has all the necessary features for fruitful and interesting conversations, so there's technically no excuse to text anywhere else.

Pay attention to profile verification and report suspicious behavior.

Despite our security measures, identity theft through falsified dating profiles may still occur. If anything feels off, report the profile immediately. Users whose identity we have confirmed have a verified badge on their profiles — but if a verified account is behaving suspiciously, report them anyway.

Make sure you're ready to meet in person.

Take the time to get to know the person you're going to meet up with. If you don't feel comfortable scheduling a date, don't rush it just to please the other person. Be open about your concerns — if they don't respect them, it will never be your fault.

Choose a safe location and time.

The best places to have your first date are usually crowded and public, and the best time is usually while there's daylight. Meeting for the first time at your home or at the other person's home may not be a good idea. You know better than anyone the safest place for you to meet a stranger.

Be mindful of transportation and travel.

Don't depend on the other person to get home or to know your way around — choose a location you're familiar and comfortable with. If you're traveling to a different country, be aware that certain countries have laws targeting LGBTQ+ people specifically. Consider the laws at your destination before you go.

Let someone you trust know where you'll be.

Be specific about the time and place of your date with someone you trust. If something happens, they're one text away from helping you or alerting authorities. Don't skip this step — it only takes a moment and could make all the difference.

Be on guard.

• Protect your personal items at all times.
• Pay attention to the possibility of having your drink tainted with incapacitating substances.
• Stay in control — stay sober.
• Be on the lookout for any suspicious behavior.

Anticipate vulnerable scenarios.

Before you fully trust the person, reject any activity that may endanger your physical or mental well-being. When it comes to sexual intercourse, remember to communicate consent, use protection, and be open about your boundaries. The only way to protect yourself from STIs is using a condom. If you're sexually active, get tested regularly, and ask your partner if they do the same.

Safety comes first.

As soon as your limits are breached or you feel uncomfortable, don't hesitate to leave. If your safety is compromised to the point it may not be easy for you to leave, reach out to others for help — make sure your phone is charged before you go.

Protect yourself from unwanted contacts or harassment.

When the other person won't take "no" for an answer, breaking all means of communication is the safest approach. Blocking incoming messages or calls is highly recommended when the other person won't respect your space and privacy.