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How to Split Travel Costs With Multiple Partners
Money ruins more group trips than bad weather. Three fair ways to split travel costs with partners, plus the line items that catch people out.
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How to Plan a Vacation With Multiple Partners
A vacation with multiple partners can be the best week of your year or the fastest route to a blowup. Here is how to plan one…
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Self-Worth in Non-Monogamy: Stop Tying Value to Rank
Self-worth in non-monogamy takes a specific kind of hit. Here is how to build a sense of value that does not rise and fall with who…
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How to Find Your ENM Community in a New City
New city, no references, no scene. How to find an ENM community in a new city without burning out or trusting the wrong person too fast.
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Long-Distance Polyamory Across Time Zones
Long-distance polyamory across time zones changes more than your sleep. What actually breaks, and how to build a rhythm that survives the gap.
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Pregnancy in Non-Monogamy: What to Decide Before You Try
Pregnancy in non-monogamy reaches past the two people trying. What to settle on health, money, roles and legal parentage before anyone stops contraception.
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How to Protect Your Social Media Privacy in Non-Monogamy
Social media privacy in non-monogamy is a shared job: what to lock down, what to agree with partners, and how to stop small leaks undoing your…
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Living Together in Polyamory: What to Decide First
Living together in polyamory changes more than your address. The lease, the doors, the guest policy and the exit plan all need deciding before anyone moves.
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Perimenopause and Non-Monogamy: What Actually Changes
Perimenopause and non-monogamy overlap more than people expect. What shifts in desire, sleep and mood, and how to revisit your agreements when capacity changes.
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Non-Monogamy After 50: What Changes and What Improves
Non-monogamy after 50 works differently than it does at 28. What changes, what gets easier, and how to start well.
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