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When a Partner Asks to Share an Account in ENM
When a partner asks to share an account: itemise the request, answer each piece on its own, and keep what you would rather keep.
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Proposing a Shared Account in Non-Monogamy
A shared account sounds like a small convenience. Here is how to propose one in non-monogamy without turning it into a trust test.
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When a Partner Says I Love You First in ENM
When a partner says I love you first in ENM: how to take it in, answer honestly, and keep the choice yours, with no debt and…
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Saying I Love You in Non-Monogamy
Saying I love you in non-monogamy: what the words mean, who to say them to, and how to leave room for an honest answer.
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Hearing Rumours About a Partner in ENM
Hearing rumours about a partner in ENM: what not to repeat, how to check without prying, and when to tell the person it concerns.
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When People Gossip About Your Relationship in Non-Monogamy
When people gossip about your relationship in non-monogamy: whether to answer, who to tell, and what stays yours. Nobody is owed the full story.
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When a Partner Needs Space in ENM
When a partner needs space in ENM: what to do in the first ten minutes, what to send, how not to fill the gap, and the…
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Asking for Space in Non-Monogamy
Asking for space in non-monogamy: who needs to hear it, how to set a return date, what to write, and how to keep a quiet week…
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Checking On an Unwell Partner in ENM Without Overstepping
Checking on an unwell partner in ENM: what to offer, what to leave alone, and how to take no for an answer without making it about…
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Being Unwell in Non-Monogamy: What to Tell Your Partners
Being unwell in non-monogamy: who actually needs to know, how much detail to give, how to accept help, and how to keep a quiet week quiet.
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