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Managing a Partner at Work in Non-Monogamy
Managing a partner at work means recusing yourself from decisions and making refusal safe. A consent-first, not-legal-advice guide for adults.
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How to Plan a Coffee Date in Non-Monogamy
Venue, time box, seating, the bill and what your other partners know: a practical plan for a coffee date in non-monogamy, before anyone sits down.
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Birth Control in Non-Monogamy
Contraception touches more people when you date more than one. Who decides, what gets shared, and how to agree without handing over control.
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First Message on an ENM Dating App
What belongs in a first message on an ENM dating app, what gets ignored, and how to write one a real person actually wants to answer.
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Night Shift Dating in Non-Monogamy
Night shift dating means your Friday is someone else's Tuesday. Map sleep first, then pick dates that fit the hours you actually have.
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Road Trip With Multiple Partners: What to Plan
A road trip with multiple partners packs a great deal of togetherness into a small car. Plan the seating, the stops and the exits first.
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Camping With Multiple Partners: A Practical Guide
Camping with multiple partners means thin walls, shared tents and no locks. Plan the site, sleep, noise and exit before you go.
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Cannabis and Consent in ENM Dating
Where cannabis meets consent in ENM dating: what it does to capacity, the rule to set first, edibles and timing, and the red flags.
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Booking a Hotel Room for a Threesome
What a hotel room for a threesome actually solves, how to book and check in quietly, and how to set the space up so three people…
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Phone Privacy in Non-Monogamy: What to Lock Down
What is on your phone that belongs to someone else, which settings do the work, and what a partner can reasonably ask for.
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